What’s my gardening story?

While my gardening story is full of happiness and learning, that’s not how it starts out.

When I was a child — I believe the summer I was to become a kindergartener — I had a terrible accident, resulting in a severe concussion requiring hospitalization for eight days. While I don’t remember the experience, and no one was to find me for several hours, the assumption is that I fell off an outdoor stairway leading to my friend’s home on the second story of a duplex. My sister later found me. I was rolling around, mumbling gibberish. The accident lead to me having aphasia for the length of my hospitalization; I couldn’t speak intelligibly for any of that time. And, I lost some basic coordination of my limbs — something that would have to be rebuilt over many years. (I still am terrible with tools and can rarely catch things thrown at me.)

As part of my therapy, my doctor and mom somehow decided it would be a good idea for me to go out to our backyard garden and pick tomatoes. Picking tomatoes would test my coordination. By that, I mean that if I couldn’t grab the tomatoes without bruising or puncturing the skin, I had more coordination that had to be built.

Regrettably, my first foray into a garden (and last for quite some time) resulted in me stepping on an underground wasp hive. I don’t recall how many times I was stung. But this memory sticks with me, and the years of hatred of tomatoes that would have to be unlearned.

For all the years until I became an heirloom gardener — like 30 some odd years — I would refer to raw tomatoes as evil and as devil’s apples (as they used to be referred to in older days). Plus, I jokingly mentioned the confusion of whether or not tomatoes are fruits or vegetables, as they greedily want to have it both ways.

Fast forward a few years. My parents divorced; my mom remarried; and, we moved to rural Wisconsin. My stepdad (although that’s not how I think of my second dad) had a job that did not pay a living wage. My mom had to stay home with a family that would double in size — 4 kids to take care of. As a result, we lived in poverty. Gardening, gathering berries and apples from the woods, and my dad’s hunting of deer and grouse, in addition to surplus government dairy products, helped keep our family fed throughout my time living there. Now and then, we also raised chickens (for eggs) and goats (for milk), which also helped things out. While I assisted with the gardening and taking care of animals, I can’t say I loved the chores.

Fast forward again to my last college semester. Professor Terrance Ball was my advisor for my senior honor’s thesis. A couple of years earlier, Professor Ball turned me on to the agrarian essayist, poet, and novelist, Wendell Berry. I was deeply intrigued by Berry’s take on local economies as well as the merits of gardening to understand the full, real food process. One day, I told Professor Ball about my home in rural Wisconsin as well as the fact that I had nothing important to do before beginning a job in September. He “instructed” me to go home and grow vegetables and gather fruits from the woodland on our farm. Almost immediately afterward, I asked my parents if this would be okay. “Um, sure,” was the answer.

On the weekends leading up to my move back home, I headed back to till up two large garden plots and start up the cool-weather veggies. Once I made the move, I immersed myself in gardening, foraging, and learning how to prepare food for freezing. I also spent hours with my mom’s gardening and food preparation books. Rodale’s “Gardening Answers” and Carol Hupping’s third edition of “Stocking Up” became my go-to guides. My mom also talked to her friends about my summer venture. A few of them donated some of their excess garden produce for me to preserve. Immediately upon moving back to Minneapolis, I bought a chest freezer and filled it with the result of my hard work.

Most of the summers since then, I’ve maintained a garden. To varying degrees of success, as long as I’ve owned my home, the same is true. I give this caveat because, for many years, my home’s backyard had a line of tall thin trees with incredibly invasive roots. This robbed my backyard of sunlight as well as water, as the roots stole the moisture before my vegetable plants could. In a story for telling later, I took down the trees. (They weren’t sequestering much carbon dioxide, so I feel no guilt in this.)

Also, and to this day, my neighbor has a black walnut tree, which has many ways of ruining the nearby soil of good vegetable growth.

In 2013, Rebecca and I had our backyard redesigned by landscapers. They pitched more than half the backyard slightly to keep a level slope. But the remaining section is an entirely flat staging area, surrounded by three tiers of long 6″ x6″ submerged, cedar posts. I nailed a 3′-high, hardware cloth fence to the posts, and built seven 6’x 4.5′ x 18″ raised beds and filled them with a mix of organic soil, compost, and composted horse manure.

As I noted, I also wholly transitioned my vegetable garden to using heirloom and open-pollinated seeds. I love the different flavors, colors, and nutritional benefits of vegetable varieties you would never find in a grocery store. I am also very concerned about our country’s lack of seed diversity. Could some super-pests decimate large portions of our food supply?

That is one reason I grow anywhere between 25 and 50 varieties of vegetables in my raised beds each year.

Garden on, readers!

p.s.: Feel free to share your garden story (of any length) in the comments section below. I’d love to read about others’ quest to understand the value of real, good food.


Joyfully married to Rebecca. Friend to my pup, Luca. Passionate about justice. Love gardening, blogging, and dark chocolate.

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